Beauracratic Hang Ups

Have you ever had a loved one in the hospital and since you are not their legal guardian you are not allowed in certain areas? Well, my younger brother had major surgery over the summer of 2008 to have a tumor removed from his right calf. I didn't arrive with my parents that day because i had a doctor's appointment of my own so when i arrived late i had to try and persuade the women at the desk to let me in to see my brother. This was probably the only time i really have had problems with the "system" that i really got angry because although we dont have the same last name and i didnt come at the same time, he is still my brother.